Sometimes, I think I know what is going on, and other days, I am just really clueless. I am not unintelligent.
Perhaps, on the slow side at times, but mostly because I just assume what people are stating is what they mean.
More and more I find that not to be the case at all. Sometimes I feel certain I know exactly what is being thought, said or intimated and then in the next instance, my brain tells me I am making it up and what I thought I knew is really not true.
There are hidden meanings, body language and various nuances I seem to miss that would aid me in my lack of understanding; provided I knew what they heck there were to begin with.
It is harder with some than others.
I would definitely say I think I am a people person, and as such, I think that I pick up on vibes or feelings much quicker than most, than immediately am able to asses a situation and then alter my behavior appropriately.
Then there is you. I don’t understand you. You don’t say what I think you are going to say. You don’t respond in the way I think you will. You don’t make sense to me and that confuses me.
I try to understand. I try to explain and still I have no clue. It is disconcerting. I try to pay attention. I watch, I listen, I answer and sometimes I don’t say a word. I do this to try and glean just a bit of something that will help me understand people. Understand you.
Why would you do this? Why would you say that? Who is it you think I am? Does it matter?
3 comments:
This person is probably just an a$$. Don't stress to hard worrying what YOU might have done. Some people are just thoughtless. Period. And NOT worth stressing yourself out over. You are a great person, and they probably don't want to acknowledge it.
Love ya, Ruth
Yup, you're confused.
Thanks Ruth. No one is really being an ass. More like I just don't get people sometimes. Male and female both. ThenI get frustrated and feel like I am clueless, but thanks for your support!!
Mr. V. you are so right!!
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